Maybe you didn’t plan it, but you have fallen for a younger guy. Don’t worry, being an older woman in a relationship has its perks, but it has its downfalls, too. If the fact that someone younger is interested in you caught you by surprise, you should know that many guys want to date a cougar.
After all, you are a mature, experienced woman who knows what she wants, right? And this a proven aphrodisiac. Still, to make things work with a young stud, you have to be aware of a couple of things.
Your sex life will be amazing
You are probably aware that men reach their sexual prime in their twenties due to a spike in testosterone. On the other hand, women reach that peak ten or even twenty years later. Therefore, when it comes to sex, younger guys and older ladies are a match made in heaven. You can rest assured that your love life will be more thrilling than it ever was before.
You will have fun
When someone says they are going to have an exciting weekend, older men assume that they will watch a marathon of their favorite series while eating a bucket of chicken. For them, that is a dream come true.
On the other hand, younger guys are full of life and can’t stay in one place for too long. It is safe to say that your dates will never be boring. One weekend you will go hiking, and the next one you will visit a music festival. He will easily bring out a more youthful side of you, so if that’s what you are looking for, don’t hesitate to go out with him.
He doesn’t have an emotional baggage
Older men usually have ex-wives, kids or a mortgage to pay. They are often caught up in their problems, and they cannot relax and just enjoy the life that easily. Younger guys come with less emotional baggage, and they are more open to new experiences. However, keep in mind that his lack of relationship skills also means that resolving problems isn’t his strong suit.
You lead very different lives
Let’s face it; you are probably not in the mood to stay in a club until 4 a.m. drinking shots. Therefore, he will often go out partying with his mates instead of spending the night with you. If you can handle that, feel free to date a younger stud.