If you want to get back on the market and start HIV dating again, you must know a couple of things. Firstly, if you want to have a positive dating experience, you will need to prepare for the date. Going to a random restaurant wearing a random T-shirt just won’t do you any favors. So give yourself some time and show up ready for the date. Here are some tips which should help you with your future dates.
Don’t have expectations
Clear your mind and be open and cool with whatever happens. Don’t assume anything. Plan on making a new friend, everything else is a bonus. If you plan on getting kissed or even laid, you might end up disappointed.
If you are obsessed with having a girlfriend your date will sense that you are needy. You will be overly nice and desperate to get her approval, which she won’t find attractive at all. Women like confident guys, so be one. Even if you are not, fake it. If you want, don’t consider that a date. Imagine you are hanging out with a friend and act accordingly. It may make you seem more relaxed.
Have fun beforehand
Before your date do the things you like to do. Stretch, watch a great movie or funny clips on YouTube. Laugh a lot so your mind is clear and stress free when you show up. This way you won’t be nervous on your date and you will ooze positive energy which women find irresistible.
Maintain your personal hygiene
When you are going on a date with a girl you met on one of the HIV dating sites, be the best version of yourself. Trim those weird hairs from your nose and ears, clean your nails and wear cologne. Take a shower beforehand, shave and comb your hair. She will appreciate that you made and effort.
Don’t talk too much about yourself
When you are HIV positive dating, don’t let the conversation revolve around your condition. Talk about anything else. However, let her talk too. Be a good listener, be focused and present, and be interested in what she says. Answer her questions and ask her some of yours. Keep in mind that the best way to impress her is to not try to impress her.
Don’t talk about your past
Never talk about your exes on your first date. Focus on your date and your future, not the past. If you have to mention your ex, don’t be negative. Talking trash won’t get you far. Just say that you are just better being friends and that is it.
Always keep in mind that dating should be fun. Make her laugh and laugh with her. Talk about random, light-hearted stuff. Forget about anything serious or heavy and she will have the time of her life.